by Sharon Wee

This is the first post of a six part series about some truths behind the first 6 years of my cake journey. We hope you enjoyed reading it, be sure to comment and let us know. If you want to start at the beginning please head to the introduction, Let Me Tell You a Secret.

When I quit my job 6 years ago, I did it cold turkey. Meaning when I walked out of the office on my last day, that was also when my paycheck ended. There was no part-time job or other forms of income at that time – it was all cake.

Was it the right choice? Back then I thought so… and it’s all fine and good for me to sit here and shrug and say that it all worked out so it was a smart move. But honestly? It was easier for me to make that decision and sacrifice because I didn’t have kids, a mortgage or any other commitments at that time. So the fact that I was no longer getting a guaranteed salary was not as important as it would have been if I had someone else depending on me or debt I had to repay each month.

One of my earlier cakes... this one won 2nd place at the Sydney Royal Easter Show :)
One of my earlier cakes… this one won 2nd place at the Sydney Royal Easter Show 🙂

 

My advice here is that while I wholeheartedly support people who are willing to take the risk and the plunge, don’t do it with abandonment if you have other people relying on you or debt to repay. Because if you do, you are setting yourself up with a lot of pressure. Too often I see people stress and make desperate decisions (like discounting to get an order, taking on more orders than they are capable of handling, or buying cheaper ingredients just to get by) because they need the money to support their families. So they do things they otherwise would not have done if they were of ‘sound’ financial mind and then they end up resenting it. It becomes a cycle that spirals you downwards. It is so hard to get out of it because it’s difficult to see into the future or save any money for tomorrow when all you are doing is putting out the fires of today.

It’s not always all or nothing; there is a middle ground. That can be finding a part time job or making sure you have discussed it with your other half and that you are able to support yourselves on one salary. Because, trust me, if you have to make drastic sacrifices even before you start, you will soon come to resent the very thing you fell in love with in the first place. Even if you are in that cycle now, sit down and work out how you can get out of it.

I am also here to tell you honestly that it is not all rainbow and unicorns. Most days I absolutely love what I do… other days? I hate it. I hate it like how I used to dread going into a corporate job. It drains me when I have to deal with industry politics and I can’t hide behind a boss… because – I am the boss! I really dislike have difficult conversations with people, be it customers or suppliers but sometimes I have to pick up the phone or write that email to confront them with a difficult situation.

On my darkest days, when I really almost feel like all this is way too much and that I would just love a 9-5 job so I could just come home and watch TV, I go look at job ads. Not because I really want a 9-5 job… but mainly to read it and remind myself why I left the corporate world in the first place. I usually feel much better once I do that… because it reminds me of all the things I don’t want in life. If that fails, I sometimes go to the city on a weekday morning and watch the hordes of people going to work. I watch them and listen to the pounding of their feet, they are all pretty much in the same outfits, all trudging to work and hardly anyone is smiling. And then I always remember why I am doing what I do.

Continue reading the next part in the series, Secret 2: The Money

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26 Comments on Secret 1: Taking the Leap

  1. Paula
    August 29, 2016 at 6:16 pm (8 months ago)

    Life is too short to not do what you love in any way you can.
    Thank you for sharing x

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    • Sharon Wee
      August 29, 2016 at 6:18 pm (8 months ago)

      Thanks Paula! I agree 🙂

      Reply
  2. Mary Juckett
    August 29, 2016 at 7:30 pm (8 months ago)

    Hi Sharon, Wow, I feel like I am reading my life along with yours! Can’t wait to continue reading!

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    • Sharon Wee
      August 29, 2016 at 7:37 pm (8 months ago)

      Hi Mary, thank you so much for reading! Hope you enjoy the rest of them too 🙂

      Reply
  3. Peggy Loy
    August 29, 2016 at 9:27 pm (8 months ago)

    Hi Sharon I retired early afew years ago with no intention of going back to work.By chance I was lucky to get offered a part time job in our local cake decoration shop ( We don’t make Cakes but sell everything to do with Cakes.I have done cake decoration for many years so am now Unbelievably lucky to spend my days talking cake with customers and doing demos.There are different paths that cake addicts likeme can take instead of cake making .You can look at selling g cake making materials make and sell cake toppers rather than Cakes you can run courses to name but a few.So sometimes good to think outside the (cake) box!

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    • Sharon Wee
      September 1, 2016 at 2:27 pm (8 months ago)

      Yes Peggy, you make a good point! It’s not always just about the actual cake making itself 🙂

      Reply
  4. Vani
    August 29, 2016 at 9:46 pm (8 months ago)

    Thank you for share! I’m just starting that way! It’s so inspiring to me. Xoxo from Argentina!

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    • Sharon Wee
      September 1, 2016 at 2:25 pm (8 months ago)

      You are welcome Vani 🙂

      Reply
  5. Ana María
    August 29, 2016 at 11:50 pm (8 months ago)

    I totally relate with your story. I and my husband had for 3+ years a cake decorating business back in our country but there was a tough moment when we hated it and quit. Back to our 9-5 job felt miserable. A year ago we moved to AU. I’m studying a master degree and we fell in love of this country. Now we are decided to have our cake business back and started all the process for a residential license. We follow you since 2012 when we had our business in Colombia 😊 you are awesome!

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    • Sharon Wee
      September 1, 2016 at 2:24 pm (8 months ago)

      Wow, thank you for being a part of my journey for so long! I am so happy you have decided to follow your heart and to do what makes you happy 🙂

      Reply
  6. Donna
    August 30, 2016 at 12:31 am (8 months ago)

    Thanks for sharing Sharon. I just got laid off due to a redundancy program about 3months ago. Baking is my job-on-the-side. It was hard but I know God will bless and provide. Im accepting orders right now while looking still for any job opportunities.

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    • Cristal
      August 30, 2016 at 9:13 pm (8 months ago)

      What area do you live in, Donna? My job, a mortgage company in NJ, is hiring.

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    • Sharon Wee
      September 1, 2016 at 2:23 pm (8 months ago)

      Good on you for keeping it all going. All the best with finding a suitable and great job 🙂

      Reply
  7. Irish
    August 30, 2016 at 12:48 am (8 months ago)

    Wow! I can see myself in your blog.. Thanks for sharing.. I once an angel in the sickroom (nurse) and turned into a baker. Baking is my passion and i’m loving it!

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    • Sharon Wee
      September 1, 2016 at 2:23 pm (8 months ago)

      Thank you so much Irish 🙂

      Reply
  8. penny ang
    August 30, 2016 at 5:18 pm (8 months ago)

    Hi Sharon…so glad you are willing to share your business journey. I agree nothing comes easy but with commitment, passion, and determination, I’m sure things will work out eventually. I quit my corporate job 4 years ago and now doing part-time baking business. Baking is my passion and I would like to continue doing it. For me, I admit I haven’t been putting much effort to let keep this going but I really wanna make it work full time like you 🙂

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    • Sharon Wee
      September 1, 2016 at 2:20 pm (8 months ago)

      Make it happen 🙂 I believe you can do it!

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      • penny ang
        September 7, 2016 at 12:09 pm (8 months ago)

        THANK YOU SO MUCH Sharon. Couldn’t agree more with your 6 part series cake journey. Will definitely make it happen 😉 And hope to meet you in person one day hehehe.

        Much love from me in Penang, Malaysia :))

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  9. Liz
    August 30, 2016 at 8:59 pm (8 months ago)

    Hi sharon. Thanks for sharing..and inspiring😊 im a stay at home mom and i recently discovered a passion and a little talent for cake decorating and you are a one of my idols. Can’t wait to read your next post😊

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    • Sharon Wee
      September 1, 2016 at 2:17 pm (8 months ago)

      Thank you Liz, I’m so happy you enjoy reading the posts 🙂

      Reply

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